**“Love "**, we all know is a feeling that we have ever felt, I think there is no one who can say otherwise, maybe we have not fallen in love, but there is the love of a mother, the love that we feel for that person who is part of our life since before we were born. I think that there is no exact definition, everyone has their own concept of what love is, since we can feel love for many people, for our faithful companion (a puppy) or any pet, as I said, we all have a different thought about it. **For me love is, inspiration**, is to feel good, happy, feel good about yourself, because we can also love ourselves, I think it is the feeling that lifts us up every day, that gives us that little push to move forward, that despite going through bad times tells us that we can, that we can get out of that situation, that we can get up.
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Perhaps there is someone who does not feel love for himself, but surely there are people who do care, and so they give their all, a clear example, mothers, who sometimes want to throw in the towel but know they have a son or daughter for whom to get ahead and it is that love that gives them strength to go on and face the obstacles that are necessary. Love is that feeling that moves us and makes us vulnerable too, that perhaps hurts us, but I think it is worth experiencing. I believe that life would be very empty if love didn't exist, if we didn't have someone to be motivated by besides ourselves of course, we have to love ourselves first and then think of someone else. **Self-love must be the most important**, our happiness or peace cannot depend on someone else, not even the most beautiful thing we have which is our mother, it may sound selfish, but if we are not emotionally well we cannot lead a totally healthy life, we will end up being people with emotional dependence, with low self-esteem, living in the shadow of someone else, and I think that is not what we are looking for in life.
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Many people confuse love with a toxic love, a dependent love, where they need someone else's approval to be free, to be happy, and that is certainly not love. *It's not love for oneself or for anyone else.* Love is the most powerful feeling, it is the one that brings us together, the one that helps us to be better people, the one that unites many countries, many nations, wherever we are, whatever race we are, love is everywhere, it unites families, friends, and obviously couples hehehe It all depends on whether we know how to express it and feel it, we already know that just as it can make us better people, the opposite can also happen, or it can make us suffer a lot, so let's learn to love ourselves first in order to love others.
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I think that today's society needs a lot of self-love, not knowing how to love ourselves, we will not be able to give that feeling to anyone or at least not in a healthy way, the world is full of a lot of evil, of a lot of mental disorder, of a lot of lack of **LOVE**, the one who is born with love does not need to go out and look for it in the street, **Why?** "Because he learned to love himself".
Originally posted here: https://hive.blog/hive-175254/@franyeligonzalez/powerful-words-5-love
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