When we talk about emotional attachment we refer to that condition that can be had both with family, friends or partners, it is usually more common in couples, when there begins to be the appearance of an attachment this can cause emotional damage, since some people show a kind of insecurity or rather are afraid of losing their partner and be alone.
In that sense, from my point of view, it seems that people lose their self-esteem, underestimating themselves in different aspects of their lives, it seems that they are beings (women and/or men) who are not capable of facing life alone, if for some reason they were to lose their partner.
In this sense, I consider that the first step to overcome this type of situation is that people accept that they suffer from this type of dependence and can be treated by some specialists and of course it is always good to have people from whom they receive support and allow them to emerge from this type of situations that some might go unnoticed.
As I mentioned before it is important to seek help from specialists such as psychologists, since a psychologist can provide the necessary way to see life from another point of view where you can be calm, happy and achieving all the success you can and the most important thing is that the person will recover his self-esteem and essence.
Finally, each person should be happy without the need to have someone by his or her side, since we are all capable of achieving our goals without the need for someone to help us achieve them. That is why at the moment that a person decides to have a partner it should be a complement not a necessity since, you should have a normal life with friends, family and people you know without alienating them for the simple reason of having a partner.
Dear readers, having a partner means having a person with you through thick and thin, who will help you have a healthy, happy, free life and in this way there will be the connection that having a relationship implies. That is why you must know how to distinguish between love and attachment, since one can make you feel alive and happy while the other could destroy your essence and self-esteem without realizing it.
Originally posted here: https://hive.blog/hive-175254/@amestyj/some-considerations-on-emotional-attachment
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